Therapy Isn’t One-Size-Fits-All: How We Fine-Tune Your Healing Process

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When it comes to therapy, one size does not fit all. You’re not here for a cookie-cutter approach—you’re here because you want real, meaningful progress. And the truth is, healing is deeply personal. What works for one person might not resonate with someone else, and that’s okay.

This is why we take the time to experiment, adapt, and fine-tune your therapy experience to meet your unique needs. Whether it’s adjusting session formats, exploring different therapeutic tools, or listening closely to how your system responds, the process is all about finding what works best for you.

Flexibility in Therapy Intensives

Therapy intensives offer the time and space to deeply focus on what’s coming up for you without the constraints of traditional weekly sessions. With extended session lengths—90 minutes or more—we have the freedom to dive deep into your goals and experiment with approaches that feel aligned.

Maybe you prefer to meet weekly for a period of time or transition to biweekly, monthly, or even quarterly sessions. The key is flexibility. This isn’t about fitting your life into a rigid therapy schedule—it’s about adapting therapy to fit into your life.

Adapting Bilateral Stimulation to Your Needs

Not everyone responds to therapy techniques the same way, and that includes bilateral stimulation (BLS), a core component of many trauma-focused therapies like Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART) and EMDR.

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While eye movements are often the go-to method, they’re not the only option. We can also experiment with auditory tones, tactile tapping, or even rhythmic movements. For some, auditory BLS feels calming and intuitive; for others, tactile stimulation might feel grounding and effective.

The beauty of this process is that it’s adaptable. Together, we’ll find the approach that your system responds to best, allowing us to access deeper layers of healing.

Listening to Your System

One of the most powerful aspects of therapy is learning to listen to your system. In our sessions, we pay close attention to how you respond—what feels activating, what feels calming, and where you feel stuck.

This isn’t about pushing through discomfort for the sake of progress. It’s about creating a space where we can notice what’s happening in the moment and adjust our approach to support your goals. Healing happens in the details, and those details matter.

A Kind and Adaptive Approach

There’s no pressure to get it “right” in therapy—because there’s no single right way to heal. What matters is that the process feels manageable, supportive, and tailored to you.

If something doesn’t feel like a fit, we adjust. If a tool resonates, we lean into it. Therapy is about collaboration, kindness, and meeting you exactly where you are. Over time, these small adjustments create meaningful shifts, helping you find relief and connection in a way that feels aligned with your unique needs.

Your Healing, Your Way

Healing isn’t about following a rigid protocol or sticking to someone else’s rules—it’s about finding what works for you. Whether you’re exploring therapy for the first time or seeking a more personalized approach, we’re here to support you in discovering the tools and methods that create real, lasting change.

Ready to see what’s possible? Reach out today to explore services and find a personalized therapy process that feels uniquely yours.

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Hi, I'm Ashley. Nice to meet you!

I'm a trauma therapist located in Portland, Oregon trained in some of the best deep brain therapies out there- ART, EMDR, and Brainspotting. In my free time I loves snacks, gardening, and fantasy novels.

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